【瑟塔杂谈】Why we are not closed to our relatives now

Nowadays,young people is becoming less closed to their relatives.Some consider this to be the behaviour of apathy.But,I consider it to be the Manifestations of the progress in our society.

why we don't want to be closed to our relatives

The environment changes

The society in the past was linked by blood.People often stay in one place,do not have chance to meet people from afar.The relatives natrually became the people the stay with.The connection between people is quite simple.

The connection between today's people is quite complex.Since the Development of transportation and networks,people can easily be connected with each other anywhere in the world.With urbanization,more people leave their home for better opportunity.They became less connected with their relatives.

Mental stress caused by our relatives

"I am the old.I cares about you.You'd better listen to my advice."We awalys listen to words like this.There are so many relatives who interfere in my life in the name of care.Some of them really cares about you.But their advance don't fits you.You are very grateful for his concern,but tired to explan the reason why you don't like their advice.Some only cares about the inrerest of their own.They give you their advice which could offer their great help in the future.Some just take this to relieve the embarassment.They are actually not willing to talk with you,but out of courtesy,they have to do that.

The meaning the this phenomenoun

It shows the awakening of self-awareness.The yound chose to develop quality relationship with those who deserve it instead of wasting time.They establish closed relation with people who have the same interests like them,who have the similar characteristics like them.It's enought to have only a real friend in our life .A real good relationship is better than thousands of bad ones.